In a recent post I mentioned I'd started exploring Daddy/little girl play again. It was something I played with a few years back, but when that particular partner and I went our separate ways, that kind of play pretty much fell out of my life. It's something I enjoy to be sure, but was never really a major focus of my play, so I was more then happy to go without. More to the point, my enjoyment of it stems from my partner's enjoyment of it. In some ways, that is true about almost everything I do as a top/dom, but in particular it is true with Daddy play. Playing with someone who has that Daddy fantasy, and helping her create a safe space to explore it- incredibly hot. Having someone who isn't really into it, but doesn't mind trying it out cause she thinks it will get me hot- doesn't work at all. With this kind of play especially- what works is if it comes from my partner.
So, for a while I was happy to just let it go entirely, since it wasn't a kink of any of my playmates. More recently, I've missed it a bit, but was mostly happy to just leave it be.
But when Eden mentioned she thought she was ready to explore that with me- suffice to say I was quite pleased. We've known each other for almost a year, and started seeing each other semi-regularly about a few months back, and been having a lot of fun both in and out of bed. Then when I was away for work for a few weeks we wound up flirting heavily online, and it was in those discussions that the Daddy topic came up.
There was a lot of discussion. Preparation. Anticipation. The result- I'll let you read it in her words, as she wrote it so much better then I could have.
We've seen each other a few times since, and some of it was Daddy time, and most of it was not. Which is for the best for both of us, neither of us is wants it to be the main focus of our time together.
But that night- oh my lord. So very very hot.
I'm a spiritual man writing about sex, and a sexual man writing about the sacred. Here, the two overlap, with other topics and tangents thrown in. I’m also a geek, which means discussing and analyzing sex is almost as fun as having it. If I can make you think and reflect and inspire your own comments, lovely. If I also make you wet or hard- engaging your mind as well as your pink bits- all the better. Read and enjoy. Share your responses. Share your thoughts. Share yourself.
Saturday, June 14, 2008
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